I recently had to give up my beloved ’03 Toyota Corolla because, due to a minor collision, she was deemed a total loss. I never thought I was as attached to that car as I found out I was when I had to give her up. For the past year or so, I’ve fondly referred to her as “Betsy” because she was getting up in her years.
Betsy was my first car. I still remember my dad surprising me with her outside of my high school one afternoon! He handed me the keys and said she was all mine! I couldn’t believe I had a car of my own! From there she would get me safely to my dad’s house every other weekend, to school and home each day, and wherever else I needed to go.
I brought her with me to college and she took me all over fullerton on adventures with my friends. She took a lot of people to San Pedro on our way to Catalina every spring and allowed for late night food runs after our weekly meetings with Intervarsity.
She drove my team and I around LA when I spent the summer interning at the Union Rescue mission. She got us safely around LA and some other sketchy areas with safety and ease.
After I graduated college, I brought her with me to live in LA for a 2 year internship in the inner city of South LA. I had a temporary job in Downtown LA and wasn’t using her for fear of parking fees and citations, but my roommate at the time took care of her instead. She needed a car for her job and my Betsy was not going to be used so I shared Betsy with her.
When I decided to remain in LA after the internship, Betsy helped me move into 3 different apartments in the LA and Culver city area. She carried WAY more than you would think she could and was always ready for the challenge of packing in one more box!
For my 28th birthday, some of my friends surprised me by decorating her with some of my favorite actors and singers to show me they loved me! It was so cool to walk up to my car and have NO idea who went to such lengths to surprise me and make me feel special.
At the end of the day, she was just a car. But she was a safe and reliable car that got me everywhere I needed to be. So thanks Betsy. You were a good ol’ broad and you were everything I needed in a car. Thanks for the years of no car payments you allowed me to have and for all the miles we drove together.
After this weekend, I have a new baby. Not sure about the name just yet (it did take 10+ years for Betsy to get her name after all) but I do have to admit I’ve grown fond of her already.
I truly can’t believe that I have this car. I’ve wanted this type of car (more specifically the CRV) for a long time..so I was happy to see that it drove so well and I did fall in love pretty quickly. It’s a new Hyundai Tucson.
I’ve gotta say, it is nice driving around a new car…but it’s also terrifying. I feel so nervous that everyone is trying to hit me. I’m one of those annoying drivers who take forever to change lanes too. I’m hoping that will change as I get to know this car better and get comfortable on the road again.
She’s no Betsy, but she’s adorable and drives so smooth. Here’s to car payments (boo!) and finally having bluetooth and no cassette tape in my car. It’s a whole new world!